Good & Healthy Relationship Advice & Tips

Nick Savoy, lead instructor for Love Systems, is a professional pick-up artist. Really, training men on the science of picking up women is his job. So, we turned to Savoy to answer our most pressing question: What’s the average guy doing wrong?

One thing I’ve noticed is that most men naturally make the same basic mistakes. If these five “game killers” are holding you back, here's a solution for each situation.

BEING THE NICE GUY

Men are nice to attractive women all the time. She probably likes it, but it doesn’t set you apart from other men any more than breathing would. Plus, if you suck up to her right away, she’ll know you think she’s out of your league. In which case, she won’t disagree.  

SOLUTION:

Show her you see her as a real person and not someone to put on a pedestal. Tease her or joke around with her like you would a good friend. It subtly tells her, “I’m on your level.” But don’t push this so far that you come across as a jerk. For example, if she does something clumsy or silly, playfully say, “You’re such a dork.” Like you would to a little sister.