Celebrating love without breaking banks
As a lecturer and someone who has spent over two decades mentoring young people, I have witnessed how societal expectations sometimes pressure couples into extravagant weddings they can barely afford.
Over the weekend, I attended the wedding of a former student, and what touched me most was how elegant and meaningful the celebration was — without extravagance or financial strain.
Held at the bride’s family home, the ceremony brought together close relatives and friends in a warm and familiar setting.
Simple floral decorations and homemade meals prepared with love replaced expensive setups and professional catering.
There were no luxury rented cars, bridal trains or elaborate protocols — just pure love, community and intentionality.
Contrast
In contrast, a typical extravagant Ghanaian wedding today can cost:
Venue rental: GH¢ 10,000–20,000
Decorations: GH¢ 10,000–30,000
Catering services: GH¢10,000–40,000
Photography and videography: GH¢ 5,000–15,000
Rented luxury cars: GH¢ 3,000–8,000
DJ and entertainment: GH¢ 2,000–10,000
Bridal train outfits and preparation: GH¢ 5,000–15,000
Souvenirs and giveaways: GH¢5,000–10,000
Altogether, expenses can easily total between GH¢ 80,000 and GH¢ 150,000 or more.
Similarly, Prophet Gideon Danso, lead pastor of Empowerment Worship Centre, recently married Gina Nipah in a simple ceremony that cost only GH¢600. As Prophet Danso shared,
“We signed, took vows, received blessings, served Malt and Fanta — and that was it.”
No makeup, no special outfits, no debts — just a heartfelt commitment before God and loved ones.
Choice
Let me be clear: the choice ultimately lies with the individual or couple.
If you have the resources and it aligns with your personal goals, by all means, celebrate your wedding in a grand style that brings you joy.
However, for young, up-and-coming couples, those with limited finances, or those who simply want to be prudent, it is refreshing to see that a beautiful, fulfilling and memorable wedding can be achieved without going into debt.
Marriage is not a competition. It is a sacred journey deserving of a wise, joyful and intentional beginning.
The writer is a lecturer, UPSA.
