What will make you date your ex again?

Forgive Adjoa Forfoe Relationships May - 05 - 2016 , 10:58

Kwaku, Driver

We all enter relationships because we want to be where we would be happy with the people we love.

It’s only when you begin to really relate with the person that you begin to realise whether the new person you’re with would give you that love and peace of mind you seek.

I for one, if I realise that I’m not happy in spite of all that my new lady is doing for me, I will go back to my ex.

Also, if I realise that the new lady is not what I expected, I will quickly make a U-turn. If I also get to know that my ex still loves me, trusts me and wants me back, I will go back to her, provided I feel the same.

Efua, Reporter

I will hook up with my former guy again if after the break- up, I find out he’s a good person.

Sometimes, we lose good things before we get to know their value.

If my new guy is also not one who can support my dreams or someone I can’t achieve anything with, I will move back, fast.

Moreover, if I think that the minds and thoughts of my former guy and mine click, I will quickly stage a comeback.

This is if before the breakup, we had plans of sticking with each other and had a project that bound us together, it will be worth dating my ex again.

I won’t hesitate a second if my ex was someone who was in for the long haul and still wants me back after the breakup.

McHenry, Entrepreneur

If only my former girlfriend is still single and all that went wrong in my relationship with her before has been taken care of and I am convinced she is the lady I want to spend the rest of my life with, I will date her again.

Basically, it all boils down to forgiveness because I have to forgive myself for whatever I did wrong in our relationship and also forgive her if she did something that led to the breakup.

I also believe that first love is always the best, so I will always love to go back to her, depending on the situation at hand.

Miriam, Graphic Designer

I will date my ex again based on one condition, that he becomes faithful to me and promises me that he will remain so. After all, which lady does not want a man who will stick to only her for good?

The issue is first finding out what led to the breakup. I believe that whatever made us break-up in the first place can be resolved and forgiven, because as humans, we are bound to falter but to forgive is divine. If I can’t forgive him for the past, then I guess I never loved him in the first place.

The matters of the heart are very delicate and there should be a good reason enough for leaving one person to be with the other, else you should forgive and come back with love.

Bill, Plumber

The main thing that will make me date my ex again is if she didn’t cheat on me when we were together.

I will also consider going back to her if she is that one peculiar and special woman who could make any man smile though he is in tears.

If I were also the cause of our break-up and I have realised that, and she is ready to let go of the past, then we would come back again.

Nadima, Student Journalist

Ordinarily, I won’t go back to my ex because I believe that once we break up, we should be able to move on.

But, I believe it would depend on the circumstances surrounding our breakup in the first place.

If it was an issue surrounding cheating, I wouldn’t go back because

I believe that once a cheat, always a cheat.

It is, however, dicey though, because if I’m still in love with him, I believe all sound reasoning would go out the window. So, yes, if I’m still in love with him, I will go go back to him.

Yusif, National Service Person

I will want to date my ex again if I don’t get the right person to replace her and there is the need for a comeback.

Moreover, if she makes me understand that what led to our breakup will not happen again, then I will take her back.

I believe that though it’s a difficult thing to do, everybody deserves a second chance because my former partner may have regretted her actions, especially if she was the one who caused the breakup, so I will give her another chance.

However, it’s going to take patience and time on my part to really believe her because my trust for her will not be like before.

Gifty,Student

If I really love my ex and know our breakup was not his fault, but rather mine, I will go back to him. I will apologise and try to get him on my side again.

I will also date him again if I still trust him that he won’t do anything to retaliate the wrong I did to him.