Slow down, stay wise –Daughters on clapbacks
IN an era where social media has turned every comment into breaking news, celebrated gospel trio Daughters of Glorious Jesus is urging fellow creatives, especially the younger generation, to embrace patience, composure and wisdom when navigating public life.
The trio believes being slow to react and thoughtful in speech is a sign of maturity and wisdom that every artiste should adopt.
Daughters of Glorious Jesus, made up of Cynthia Appiadu, Edna Sarpong and Monica Owusu Ansah, told Graphic Showbiz in an exclusive interview on Thursday, October 9, that the ability to pause, reflect and respond thoughtfully was one of the most valuable qualities any artiste could cultivate.
“Let’s be slow to speak and quick to listen. In today’s world, where reactions can be instantaneous, it’s essential to take a step back, reflect and respond thoughtfully. Every artiste represents something bigger than themselves, so we must learn to speak with grace and wisdom,” they advised.
According to the award-winning Asomdwoe Hene hitmakers, many reputations had crumbled simply because artistes gave in to the temptation of quick, emotional reactions often fuelled by online drama. They urged young creatives to look to seasoned artistes who had maintained dignity and calm under public scrutiny, reminding them that silence could sometimes be louder than the sharpest clapback.
“It’s easy to get drawn into arguments, especially online, but not every battle is worth fighting. Sometimes, silence speaks louder than words. Fame comes with pressure, criticism and harsh judgment. The best way to protect your integrity is to stay calm, focused and grounded. As gospel musicians, our lives should reflect the values we preach: patience, humility and self-control.”
Beyond their counsel to fellow artistes, the trio also urged the media to play a more constructive role in shaping the industry. They called on entertainment journalists and platforms to spotlight stories that build and inspire, rather than fuelling rivalries and controversies.
“The media has enormous influence. If we focus on building each other up instead of tearing one another down, the creative space will become a much healthier, more inspiring industry for everyone,” they said.
In paying tribute to the late Highlife legend Daddy Lumba, the group pointed to him as a shining example of poise and quiet strength. He chose calm over chaos when he lived.
“Lumba carried himself with such confidence and discipline. His calm demeanour was remarkable; no matter what was happening around him, he maintained his composure. His wisdom and calm are qualities every artiste should strive to emulate,” they shared.
Their relationship with Lumba, they revealed, dates back to the 1990s, when their paths frequently crossed in Ghana’s music scene. For them, he wasn’t just a colleague; he was family.
“We’ve known Lumba since our early days. He was more than a friend; he was our brother,” they recalled fondly. “One thing that stood out about him was his wisdom, which was reflected in his music, especially in Menkwa Nda Nyinaa Mesom Jesus. He was deeply spiritual, and his songs always carried purpose.”
The trio shared warm memories of celebrating milestones with the music icon, including his 60th birthday, which they described as a time of reflection and gratitude.
“We’re grateful we had the privilege of knowing him in life, not just mourning him in death. We laughed together, shared conversations, and watched him carry himself with composure no matter the situation. He taught us to focus on our craft, mind our business, and resist reacting impulsively to negativity,” they stated.
