Good & Healthy Relationship Advice & Tips
Does she really love me?
Dear Nana Ama, I am 26 and she is 24. We have been together for two years now and are getting ready for marriage. I am gainfully employed while she has just completed her tertiary education.
We came to an agreement that I should visit her parents and introduce myself to them in line with custom before she could pay me a visit. I did as we had agreed.
Although I have honoured my side of the bargain by formally introducing myself to her family, she has refused to visit me. Besides, she is also insisting that I find her a job before we can get married.
Nana, do you think she really loves me and wants us to be together? I am confused. Please help me.
Kobby, Tarkwa.
Dear Kobby, As far as how much she loves you is concerned, her actions overwhelmingly demonstrate it– she’s been with you for two years and has asked you to meet her parents, which shows her preparedness to show her commitment to you.
It is to your mutual benefit that the woman you marry is gainfully employed, so you must both do your best to ensure that she is enabled to contribute to the family budget.
If there are other knotty areas such as her unwillingness to visit you, have a chat with her and frankly discuss what is bugging you. That is the best way to resolve issues in relationships.
