If you cry to get a man because you are ageing, no 'correct man' will come into your life-Akrobeto
Veteran actor and comedian, Akrobeto, has shared some words of wisdom for women struggling to find love. In the recent episode of Real News, Akrobeto, who is the host advised women to stop crying and desperate attempts to get a man, especially due to societal pressure and fear of aging.
According to Akrobeto, any young lady who is desperate for marriage, will end up with an irresponsible man.
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“I can tell you on authority that no responsible man will come your way. Because when things get worse, he will tell you to your face that he didn’t like you but you forced marriage on him.
“So my desperate sister, calm down. There are many young ladies between the ages of 25-30 who are rejecting men because they are looking for certain specifications to accept their proposal. And then they get desperate when they are ageing,” he said.
Using a personal story to buttress his point, he disclosed how he was rejected by a lady in his young days because he fell short of her qualifications which included not having a bank account. (More stories on Akrobeto: You don’t want a poor man, do you know tomorrow? -Akrobeto to Efia Odo, I advised Funny Face but he never listened – Akrobeto)
“This lady told me that if I don’t have a bank account and savings, how was I going to take care of her after marriage. Today, I have plenty savings. But that is not to say that you need to accept the proposal of just any man who comes your way.
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“Not all, you need to be careful with your selection so not to end with any irresponsible man. However, you don’t need to raise the bar very high to send many men away,” he said.
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Real name Akwasi Boadi, Akrobeto urged single women to focus on personal growth and self-improvement, emphasizing that a well-put-together life is a quality that attracts men to women. He encouraged them to work hard, prioritize their goals, and cultivate a sense of fulfillment, as this confidence and self-assurance are highly appealing to potential partners.
“Let me tell you, if you are a single young lady, work very well and put your life together and men will rather come begging to marry you. Don’t be desperate for everyone to know you are urgently looking for a husband, that’s not the way to go,” she stated.