Good & Healthy Relationship Advice & Tips

​Reddit shared how to tell if the man you're with is experienced in the ~sexual arts~, and it all checks out. Here's how to tell if the dude you're boning (or about to bone down with) knows how to please a lady. (Lady = you. Duh.)

1. He's stocked for lady company. He keeps pads/tampons at his place, hair ties, and extra tooth brushes and razors. 

2. ​He has a trash can with a liner in their bathroom.​ If a man has a nice bathroom, you know this cat gets around. And by gets around, I mean has sex with ladies. Probably a lot. 

3. ​He doesn't need to brag about or talk up his sexual prowess​. ​ He doesn't need to tell you because he can just show you. Meow! 

4. Women brag about him. When your product is top notch, word of mouth will get you by. Or, as one Reddit user put it, "​I once had a fuckbuddy that I told I would be willing to write letters of sexual reference for.​"

5. ​He's creative in bed (but he's also not always fucking you like a porn star). He knows variety is the spice of life in between the sheets but he's also not going to make ever sex session a marathon bone-fest that involves a trapeze and nipple clamps.

6. He doesn't rush. He's no wham-bam, thank you, ma'am. He takes his time to show you how much he cares about you. (You = your orgasm.)

7. He's vocally expressive. The art of creative dirty talk is not lost on the experienced gentlemen.  He knows he has to do better than some caveman grunts to get you off. 

8. He has good control over his body. Basically, he knows what he has and he knows how to use it. Rowr!

9. He pays attention to your clitoris. As one Reddit user puts it, "he's into finding ways to rub my clit no matter what else was going on.​"

10. He's not ashamed or embarrassed about the size of his penis. He knows that penis size isn't related to sexual pleasure, and isn't all weird about it, whether it's the size of pencil or a breadbox — but this especially goes for guys who think they're too small. One Reddit user gets it right: "Best sex ever was with a guy half as big as the worst.​"

11. He makes sure you finish first. This is the ultimate sign that you're with a verifiable beast in the bedroom.